For Mothers

This is a reprint of an article I did on my original Redding Mountain blog. I thought it fit well with my last post. To see the original article click on the link below.

I miss the days of happy children playing.

A Quote for Mothers

“If mothers could learn to do for themselves what they do for their children when these are overdone, we should have happier households. Let the mother go out to play! If she would have the courage to let everything go when life becomes too tense, and just take a day, or half a day, out in the fields, or with a favourite book, or in a picture gallery looking long and well at just two or three pictures, or in bed, without the children, life would go on far more happily for both children and parents. The mother would then be able to hold herself in “wise passiveness’ and would not fret her children by continual interference even of hand or eye – she would let them be.”

Charlotte Mason

Now if I could learn to play and take time relax maybe I would be a better mother:)

I already know how to work.

Being a Stay At Home Mom


Below is a quote that crossed my path many years ago. I do not know where I first read it.

“Oh that God would give every mother a vision of the glory and splendor of the work that is given to her when a babe is placed in her bosom to be nursed and trained! Could she have but one glimpse into the future of that life as it reaches on into eternity; could she look into its soul to see its possibilities; could she be made to understand her own personal responsibility for the training of this child, for the development of its life, and for its destiny,–she would see that in all God’s world, there is no other work so noble and so worthy of her best powers, and she would commit to no others hands the sacred and holy trust given to her.” -JR Miller

My Greatest Joy

Rearing my children was my greatest joy. My children are all grown and living their own lives now. Some of my children are parents now too.

My purpose was to rear my children to know and love God. I consider this the best thing I have ever done.  As I look at the adults they have grown to be, I am proud of the thoughtful, caring people they are. I thoroughly enjoyed my life as a stay-at-home mother.

As the quote above mentions, may God give every mother a vision,I had that vision. It was a gift from God. My greatest desire was to live in such a way that my children would see Jesus. To bring my children up to know and love God.

Reading the Bible and sharing stories of Jesus, serving and praying for the hurting was a big part of our days. Memorizing the scriptures: ABC verses, I Corinthians 13, Psalm 1, 23, 100, etc. Singing songs and playing and reading lots and lots of books! Cooking big meals and eating around our beautiful rustic table built by my father-in-law left a lot of memories imprinted on our hearts. We had lots of road trips and lived in several places. We are thankful for those friends the Lord gave us along the way!

What joy. We had our struggles to overcome, and we had a wonderful life. I thank God for the years I was able to stay home with my children.

Books I’ve Read 2020 -2022

Books – 2020 -2022

Much of my childhood was spent lost in a book. I read the library of my elementary school, worked in my high school library, and participated in summer reading programs after Mrs. Thompson opened the library world to me. As I grew older visits to the Birmingham Public Library were a treat. The architecture was beautiful and the books excited me!

I learned a lot in college but it did nothing for my love of reading. After I married and had my first child, Micah. I realized how much I missed reading. Winford Claiborne came to West Virginia to do a marriage workshop. He ignited my love for reading one again. Having a new born I knew finding reading time would be hard, I decided I could read one book a month.

This week I came across some reading lists of mine. I am sure I did not include all of the books I read. Still this was fun to find. My plan is to keep a list of the books I read and listen to this year. I have started the year off with a biography of George MacDonald my favorite author.

Here are some lists from years past.

2020

Ina May Gaskin’s book on Childbirth

The Doula Book

Captive in Iran

Kisses from Katie

The Historian

Glass Castle

Educated

Pale Rider: The Spanish Flu of 1918 and How It Changed the World

2021

A Long Way Gone

The Fountainhead

A Moveable Feast

A Hero of France

Fascism: A Warning

12 Rules for Life

A Woman Makes a Plan

Uncle Tom’s Cabin

Beyond Order

The Guernsey Literary and Potato Peel Pie Society

Younger Next Year

Fish Out of Water

Permanent Record

Alexander Campbell children’s book  – The Disciple from Bethany

Discovering Your Roots

Personal Librarian

2022

Where the Crawdads Sing

You Belong Here Now

Grandma Gatewood’s Walk

You, Inc.

The Butterfly and the Violin

Mans Search for Meaning Viktor Frankl

The Crows Caw

Maverick: Thomas Sowell

Joni Mitchell In Her Own Words

Outside Kids in an Inside World

Station Eleven

Home Boy

The Carousel

The Butterfly and the Violin

The Husband’s Secret

Treasures of the North

Rivers of Gold

Ashes and Ice

Yukon Quest

The Librarian of Basra